Overhaul deployment to Gitea Actions CI/CD, remove update.sh

Production no longer builds from source or self-updates via cron/git pull:
setup.sh now only provisions the server once (Docker, /opt/anouma, a
restricted `anouma-deploy` SSH user whose key can only ever run
deploy.sh, generated secrets). All future deployments run through
.gitea/workflows/ci.yml (lint/typecheck/test/build on every push) and
release.yml (on a vX.Y.Z tag: build the image, push it to the Gitea
registry, then SSH-trigger deploy.sh on the server), which pulls,
migrates, restarts, healthchecks, backs up the database first, and
automatically rolls back the code on a failed healthcheck.

docker-compose.yml's app service now runs a registry image
(${ANOUMA_IMAGE}) instead of building locally.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Sonnet 5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

.dockerignore

@@ -13,3 +13,6 @@ backups
 *.AppImage
 README.md
 DEPLOYMENT.md
+setup.sh
+deploy.sh
+.gitea